"Divorce"

I cannot understand divorce.  Is nothing sacred anymore if it is so easy just to call it quits?  It is an oath.  A promise made in front of witnesses and most importantly made under God.  If you have the ability to walk out on this promise, either spouse, than you are capable of any crime imaginable.  One might say that they are abused either verbally or physically.  To this I say the abuser is doing the divorcing regardless if they filed or not.  No man or woman has the right to abuse their spouse, ever.  One might say that I just don't Love them anymore or I don't want to be married.  Tough!  Figure it out!  Get help!  Exhaust all options and for the love of God never quit!  It is both spouses' responsibility to work it out, regardless of the circumstances.  Especially of there are kids involved.  What kind of message is being sent to them?  When the going gets tough, quit???  It is my opinion that their is no better lesson for your children then to watch their parents follow through with their vows and promise under God.  You have to give up a dream, so what!  Can't imagine yourself with the same person day in and day out, get over it!  A marriage commitment is bigger than the couple.  It is bigger than any dream.  Bigger than any job.  Bigger than any friend.  Bigger than yourself!  You chose to make the commitment with your own free will.  It is your job to make good on it.  If you do not believe me, let's see what God has to say:

Malachi 2:16 "I hate divorce, says the Lord God of Israel"

To a cheating spouse:
Proverbs 2:16-19  "It will save you also from the adulterous, from the wayward with with her seductive words, who has left the partner of her youth and ignored the covenant she made before God.  For her house leads down to death and her paths to the spirits of the dead.  None who go to her return or attain the paths of life"

Proverbs 6:32-33 "But a man who commits adultery lacks judgement; whoever does so destroys himself.  Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away;

A warning to the coward that pursues a married woman:
Proverbs 6:34-35 "for jealousy arouses a husband's fury, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge.  He will not accept any compensation; he will refuse the bribe, however great it is.

God's Command:
Ephesians 5:33 "Each one of you must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."

GET A CLUE PEOPLE!!!!